When your space won't hold your money
- Inbar Lee Hyams

- Nov 23, 2025
- 4 min read

You're working hard. Money comes in. Opportunities appear. But somehow nothing accumulates. Resources flow through faster than they settle. You're always starting over financially, never building on what came before.
Here's what feng shui won't do: replace the work. My teacher Amanda Gibby Peters always says that feng shui isn't transactional. Feng shui is powerful - it creates conditions, increases potential, shifts what's possible. But it's not magical thinking. You don't just hang wind chimes once and wait for wealth to appear.
Last week we learned that spaces can remember - that systems help build momentum like compound interest on your efforts. But you still have to show up.
This week's Torah portion, Vayetzei (Genesis 28:10-32:3), is about what happens between vision and accumulation. Jacob has the transcendent dream - a ladder to heaven, divine promises, a clear vision. Then comes twenty years of showing up: working for Laban, who changed the wage agreement every breeding season. "Your father has cheated me and changed my wages ten times" Jacob later tells his wives (Genesis 31:7). Vision meeting the daily grind of material reality.
Two and a half years ago, I opened a trading account with an online broker to buy stocks. Put some money in. Set up the system. The money is still sitting there. I haven't invested any of it, so naturally it hasn't made any gains. I had the vision. I built the system. But I brought my own rushing chi - and no amount of wind chimes or rugs will fix that.
Know your vision. Set up the systems. Do the work.
Sometimes the problem isn't that you're not working hard enough. Sometimes your space won't hold what you're building. And sometimes you won't let it.
THE PATTERN: Rushing Chi
Rushing chi moves too fast for resources - material, emotional, or spiritual - to accumulate. You'll sense it through:
Feeling hurried when moving through certain pathways
Items frequently falling or getting knocked over along corridors
Conversations that feel interrupted in these spaces
Skipping transition rituals (hanging coat, setting down bag) because you're propelled forward
Time feeling compressed - you can't remember what happened in that space
Money or opportunities coming in but not staying - they flow through before compounding
In homes, rushing chi often occurs along straight pathways where energy accelerates without obstacles to slow and settle it. The left column of the bagua - Knowledge (bottom-left) → Family (middle-left) → Wealth (top-left) - is particularly vulnerable when it forms a corridor.

THE PRACTICE
Sunday (Yang/Sun)
Walk your left-side pathway slowly. Notice where you naturally speed up. What pulls you forward before you're ready? Does energy rush from learning to doing to achieving without settling anywhere?
Monday (Yin/Moon)
At night, stand in your Knowledge area (bottom-left corner of your home). Can you feel settled here, or does energy keep wanting to move? Notice if wisdom feels like something that passes through versus something that roots.
Tuesday (Fire/Joy)
Place one beautiful, meaningful object at eye level in the middle of your rushing pathway. Something that makes you want to pause. Not a barrier - an invitation to notice.
Wednesday (Water/Flow)
Observe how quickly resources move through your Family area (middle-left). Does money, time, or attention nourish growth here, or rush past toward the next thing? Water should flow, not flood.
Thursday (Wood/Growth)
Add something living - a plant, fresh flowers - to your Wealth corner (top-left) that requires you to pause daily. Wood energy needs time to grow roots before reaching upward. It can't be rushed.
Friday (Metal/Structure)
Create one intentional boundary in your rushing pathway. A rug that changes texture. A piece of furniture that says "slow here." A threshold that asks you to notice the transition. Metal's precision helps contain rushing water.

Saturday (Earth/Grounding)
Rest in your Wealth area for ten minutes. Just sit. Notice if this feels impossible, uncomfortable, or surprisingly peaceful. Earth element wants to consolidate - but rushing chi won't let it.

STRATEGIC RESPONSE
Wealth (Gua 4 - Wood/Top-Left): This is where rushing chi becomes most painful. Opportunities arrive but flow away before you can capitalize. Money comes in and immediately exits. Projects start but don't compound. You're working like Jacob - years feeling like "a few days" - but without the accumulation at the end. Dreams need feet on the ground.

Working with this corner: In "Your Hidden Symmetry: How Your Birth Date Reveals the Plan for Your Life," Jean Haner (in collaboration with Louise Hay) connects feng shui's bagua map with 9-Star Ki - a Japanese system that maps personal energy patterns based on birth date. For the wealth area, Hay offers four mantras addressing guidance and follow-through:
"I am guided throughout this day to make all the right choices"
"I am a decisive and productive person. I follow through with the tasks I start"
"I make sure that all my choices support the new pathways I want to take"
"I spend time with the elders in my life. I know that they are a source of knowledge and experience and that they have a lot to contribute to my time on Earth"
Choose the one that lands. Write it down in red ink, place it in a red envelope, and tuck it into a thriving plant in your Wealth corner. Just don't set it and forget it. Processes take time. What looks instant from the outside usually follows a long period of intention meeting consistent action.

CLOSING INSIGHT
Jacob's ladder was "set upon the ground" - mutzav artzah - firmly planted, not floating. Maybe the prosperity you're seeking isn't trying to run away. Maybe your space just needs to learn how to say: stay. Or maybe you do.



